10 Facts to Know about ANAL SEX

  1. Not only gay men have anal sex & not all gay men have anal sex. Many people, heterosexual and homosexual, take part in anal intercourse.
  2. Some heterosexual couples may engage in anal sex to avoid pregnancy and maintain “virginity.” But it’s important to know that anal sex is one of the most efficient ways to transmit HIV and other STIs.
  3. 20% of sexually active heterosexual students at UCSB say they have engaged in anal sex. This is the riskiest form of sexual behavior in terms of contracting an STI.
  4. Those who enjoy anal intercourse should always use a condom to prevent skin to skin contact and transmission of bodily fluids that can transmit STIs. Put the condom on well before the penis comes in contact with the anal area.
  5. Anal intercourse is the riskiest sexual behavior because the lining of the rectum is so sensitive and easily torn. Tears in the rectum make the transmission of HIV and other STIs easy.
  6. Lube is your friend. The rectum doesn’t produce the natural lubrication that the vagina does, so it is very very important to use your own lubrication, such as K-Y jelly or Astroglide. It will decrease tears in the delicate anal tissue or to the condom itself.…the wetter the better! Note: If irritation from lube occurs, discontinue use.
  7. Communication is very important. The receptive partner should set the depth and pace. Never force penetration. Anal sex should not hurt! If it does, stop. Deep breathing and relaxing should increase comfort. Stop immediately if there is discomfort or if either partner wants to.
  8. The muscles around the rectum are tight and are not used to objects being inserted. It helps to first start off by inserting a well-lubricated finger or two. But make sure the fingers are clean and nails are cut short as possible to prevent tearing the rectal lining or causing infections.
  9. Remember that fingers and toys used during anal play can also carry STIs between partners. Also, objects inserted in the anus should have a flared base so they don’t slip into the rectum and become irretrievable.
  10. Never go from anus to mouth, or anus to vagina, without washing carefully (and changing condoms) in between. “Double Dipping” can cause vaginal infections to occur. Remember to use a new condom and wash well after having anal sex and before vaginal sex.



Sources:


  • Study of Sexual Behavior at UCSB, 2002, Dr.’s Baldwin, et al.
  • UCSB Sex Info Website: www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo
  • Go Ask Alice Website: goaskalice.com, Columbia University
  • Siecus Reports, HIV/AIDS Update, Oct/Nov 2002
  • Good Vibrations Website: www.goodvibes.com, Ten Rules of Anal Sex, Jack Morin, Ph.D.